Anyone else joining myself (Julie) and my friend Gill on this fabulous holiday? 

by JulieW on Wednesday 4 February 2026 22:02

When you say 'myself' are you trying tp pretend to be a 'traitor'? Most English peoplesay 'me'

by the only one on Friday 6 February 2026 13:35

Not a traitor, just using correct English Grammar 😊

by JulieW on Sunday 8 February 2026 13:46

It is generally correct to say "join me" in English. "Join me" is standard, grammatically correct, and appropriate for both formal and informal situations. "Join myself" is incorrect, as "myself" should only be used when the subject and object are the same (e.g., "I taught myself"), which is not the case when asking others to join you. 

by the only one on Monday 9 February 2026 20:22

Arguing with someone you do not know, or have not met or seen seems rather silly to me.

The Only One, are you male?

by Tintwistle25 on Tuesday 10 February 2026 10:52

Femme. English teacher.

by the only one on Wednesday 11 February 2026 12:27

The Only One...so after the bit of banter; are you planning on this trip? I'm thinking of the reading holiday in Crete. FWIW.

by Low Tide at Putney. on Wednesday 11 February 2026 13:40

Santorini w/ Solos in May. C U there?

by the only one on Wednesday 11 February 2026 19:54

Bonjour Femme !  Have a lovely time in Santorini, but don't start giving free lessons in grammar to your fellow guests as some people will take offence  and you will be shunned! 

Sorry for thinking you were male X

by Tintwistle25 on Thursday 12 February 2026 08:48

An English teacher replying in French. How ironic. 😂

Back to Julie's point, it would be wonderful to e-meet other people that are booked on the Bali trip. ☀️

by Gill-F on Friday 20 February 2026 15:17